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DCFemella: Well Behaved Women Rarely Make History: So What if I’m Single?

  • atlimbo · 1 month ago
    I love everything about this! Couldn't agree more with your reasons why having a real relationship in this city is just impossible - that ADHD and work work work - it's like "It takes time, people!!!" *huff*

    :D Great post, seriously.
  • dcfemella · 1 month ago
    It seems like it infects every major city. One of the reasons why I don't understand why everyone is acting like I'm someone who needs sympathy when in cities, people usually remain single longer.

    Thanks! =D
  • atlimbo · 1 month ago
    It's true! When I visit home (rural Maine, where most of my family still is) I'm the odd woman out for being 25 (I know, right?) and still single, living on my own (with friends in a house, but still)... They don't "get down on me" for it, but there's a definite separation, you know?

    I was asked once (by someone back home, because back there you just are together, there isn't much in the way of 'dating to get to know someone') to define the difference between dating and a relationship, and eventually just gave up, ha!
  • dcfemella · 1 month ago
    Haha! That is how it is when I am trying to explain to my aunts the difference between the two as well. They look at me like I'm talking a different language.
  • girlsrockbeingsingle · 2 weeks ago
    single so what? we don't need anyone to make us happy but ourselves and our family! i just got out of a relationship because my ex is selfish person. everyone say that i deserve better so i broke up with him and i am happier now without him and i dun have to worry if he love me everyday.