DISQUS

DCFemella: Well Behaved Women Rarely Make History: Your Lack of Planning Is NOT My Emergency

  • Jadxia · 5 months ago
    Absolutely you did the right thing. It's hard not to feel guilty, but you have to defend your own rights when others are being unreasonable and taking advantage of you.
  • dcfemella · 5 months ago
    I'm trying to be more selfish about some things. I am way too nice and giving, and people take advantage of that.
  • sean808080 · 5 months ago
    Great post! One of my favorite expressions is 'I'm not available' It works in many situations and gives no information that can be used to argue the point.

    A friend recently told me that 'drama is what happens when one person doesn't think about how their actions affect others' I've been seeing this to be true. Would you say so?

    Good luck learning to stand up!
  • dcfemella · 5 months ago
    Inconsiderate, selfish people are usually the ones who start drama, so you are absolutely right.